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Beliefs are assumptions, theories, explanations,
conclusions and states of mind which we choose, at some level,
as mechanisms to help us make sense out of our experiences.
Beliefs often become so ingrained due to repeated situations
which seem to "prove" their legitimacy, that we may
confuse them with facts.
What is the difference between a fact
and a belief?
I'm sure there is a hard and fast definition
to both of these words. For the purpose of this discussion...
let's just say that facts are usually accepted as the bottom
line... not based on opinion, but provable by some objective
measure. For example, it is a fact that 12 inches equals 1
foot. We can measure it with a ruler. A belief would be something
like this, "Relationships are hard work".
The thing about beliefs is that they
are the foundation upon which we build our expectations. Most
of us need expectations to help us feel secure. We feel safer
when we can guess what is coming next. We feel like we can
prepare for the worst if we need to.
However, we are learning that these
expectations are actually manifesting what we do NOT want
to happen. Remember how the unconscious mind ignores those
negative terms... not... can't... won't... don't, etc. That's
right, so when we are thinking... "I hope I don't run
out of money again this month." our unconscious mind
hears an intention of "I hope I run out of money again
this month."
This puts the opposite energy into
your mind and into the universe and you manifest it with your
own intentions. Just imagine how your life will change when
you get these communications straightened out and you are
believing and setting intention only for what you truly intend
for your life.
How are beliefs formed?
Many of our beliefs are simply conclusions
we have drawn based on our experiences as children. If we
grow up in a warm, nurturing and supportive family we will
have very different beliefs than if we grow up in a painful,
shaming and abusive family.
It is important to remember that we
are clearing beliefs on
Four Levels. This means that
you may have beliefs held in your unconscious mind stemming
from your parents, or grandparents or from past lives. So
it is possible to have worked through many issues pertaining
to THIS life, and still have some pretty detrimental beliefs
playing a big part in your decisions you make each day.
One thing that is constant is that
at the time we chose any belief, no matter what that belief
may be, it made sense at the time. Therefore, no belief is
stupid, or bad, or even wrong. Beliefs serve a purpose and
sometimes our lives change so much that old beliefs become
a mismatch for our lives as they change.
Beliefs we hold as
children don't always serve us well as adults. As children
we may truly believe that credit cards are magic money. It
makes sense at the time to believe such a thing. As adults
this belief is out dated and detrimental to creating the kind
of life we really want. Most of us have probably worked through
beliefs like this one. Other beliefs are much more subtle
than this and lay beneath more obvious ones.
Let's say you did believe that credit
cards were magic money, as a child and now as an adult you
have a continual problem with being in debt. We might then
look for a belief about fear of responsibility. Something
like, "Responsible people are boring." and under
that might be "Boring people are lonely."
We would then clear the belief that
boring people are lonely and that would like give you the
freedom to begin being more responsible. You would then begin
noticing yourself make wiser choices about paying bills, spending
your money more wisely and so on.
A good way to think of beliefs is like
a house of cards. Often beliefs are layered. If we can get
to the very bottom one or two, we can clear many related ones
all at once.
Ok.. let's get busy and have some fun!
I am organizing these beliefs into
various areas or clusters so you can see layers more easily,
as well as, keep focused in certain areas which may be of
interest to you.
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